Tuesday, March 29, 2011

Mr S. Leather on Daily Show

Holy shit everyone. This is gonna be awesome. Jason Jones from the Daily Show is doing a correspondent piece on Mr. S Leather! This is going to be amazingly hilarious and it will be on tonight, 11pm EDT on Comedy Central (EDIT: it is now TBD. I will let you know as soon as Mr. S tells me when it will actually be on). Just a nice picture, which is surprisingly woofy to capture your interest. I think that's a neoprene shirt with a Nasty Pig Jock... Woof.



I cannot wait.
-Bo

PS Oral Exam tomorrow. Wish me luck!

Sunday, March 27, 2011

Public Hypnosis.

Yesterday, a university in the area had a "Kinky Karnival" event for their students to learn more about kink and bdsm. I was working with Neil, the Erotic Hypnotist, to do some hypno-bondage and such in order for display hypnosis in conjunction with bdsm sex. As the demo-bottom, I was to go under and then let him display some things. Neil gave a great lecture on hypnosis and its applications to kink sex, and then played with two people with a minor party trick with a waking suggestion and it worked really well on one of them. She was pretty amazed.

Then it was time for me to go under in front of everyone. I was really nervous, as I was in front of around 40-50 people, some of which were my vanilla friends, and even one of my former students.

Neil did a rapid induction with me, and I felt my eyes starting to water as I stared at him, wanting to do well with him so that they could see what hypnosis could really do. I put my hand on his and then pressed down as instructed, and then after a while he lets go and I fell into trance. A single (emo) tear started running down my face, which was kind of odd and interesting. He started to get me deeper and deeper, gave me a sleeping trigger and then consequently took me in and out of sleep to get me deeper. He then gave me some of his standard hypnobondage triggers, and he showed them off to everyone, showing that I could be immobilized, have hypnotic handcuffs, and malleable to how someone sees fit.

He put me under again, asking if I would be okay with tranformational stuff, and I nodded. We tried to make me a puppy and my subconscious revolted. When he woke me up, and gave me the trigger, it didn't happen. It was probably about the public display and I didn't feel *that* comfortable, so that made it more complex I feel. I also had worried about the puppy play aspect in public before the event, so that may have been involved too. When it didn't work, Neil was really graceful about it and then put me under and gave me sensory triggers.

This one I didn't think was going to work in public, but as soon as he got me out of trance and pulled the trigger, I was getting a blowjob in my pants. I got a bit embarrassed, put this smug smile on and turned beet red. Everyone in the audience knew what that meant and everyone thought it was an amazing riot. I thought it was hilarious but I was a-ok getting a blowjob at that moment, especially hypnotically.

He then stopped it and put me in an immobilizing trigger and offered people to move me around. My friend got up came up to me and put my hands up and just said "As a devout Georgia Bulldog, I must do this to him" and made me do a Florida Gator chomp. I was hating every moment of this. He knew from that point that I was completely hypnotized, as I would have never let that happen otherwise. Everyone seemed really engaged and it was really fun for everyone to learn more about kink. They then went on to choose between electro and gear bondage demos. It was a really neat event for a university to put on, and I really wish we had this at my undergrad!! These type of events excite me as the world is slowly getting to know kink better. Everyone in the audience really interacted well, and very few of them had kink experience beforehand. It was really neat how all of them were enjoying themselves and really interested. Things like this are what will help us get a better street cred, not just the shocking parts of our culture that we throw down people's throats. Both are important, but this was really something that I think a lot of them will find memorable.

Until next time,
Bo

Friday, March 25, 2011

Fort Troff Sale!!

Fort Troff! They're going crazy for their Annual Sale. Half off Rubber? Don't mind if I do...

But honestly... I probably will just want to buy



That. Just wanted y'all all to know it's going down!

EDIT: Holy shit. All the rubber is gone! That was fast... Well, I just put my order in just to be safe for the other things I wanted... :-D

Monday, March 14, 2011

Break

Well, I had a great spring break, I'm en route to back home, to a meeting at 5pm and then going to go work for 16 days straight until my oral exam, but I have a couple of quick things to say about this weekend. I got some great kink in with connections old and new and I enjoyed myself thoroughly and I think it's gonna give me enough power to really power through the rest of my homestretch before my exam, coming in and feeling anew. Kink can do that when you're really into it. It makes you feel happy, very happy when you have such a nice time with it. Liberated, strong, and euphoric. Having a nice kink night really just makes one feel complete at times, and smiling for the next day.

But I'll leave you with one picture that I illegally took when I was hanging out with my friends when no cameras were involved (I know, I'm a terrible person), but I really thought it'd make a good piece. It sums up a piece of romanticism that I think is often lost in kink. I think it was cute:



The bottles are two individualized JLube bottles of one of my favorite kink couples. It makes me go "awww" as a good kinkster.

Until next time,
Bo

Saturday, March 5, 2011

Kinks I don't have: Ice

I just don't really get it. It just happens. I tell Doms that I really don't care for it, and they just think that I just react to it and it should be punishment. I mean some people react really well to it. I just think it's there and doesn't add anything, and just is a boner-killer. I just don't find any part of it arousing when it occurs to me. It distracts me. That's about it. I'll go along with it, but, to be honest, I'm just rolling my eyes behind this blindfold.

Tuesday, March 1, 2011

March!!! - Kinky Karnival!

So it's upon us! My month where I have my final exam ever. Me standing there, with three men staring at me, attacking me with all of their demands until they are fully sated. Torturing me for hours on end until their thirsts are quenched, as I pleadingly make leaps of faith and desperation in order to try to please them. Well, mathematically at least. It sounds a lot better when I phrase it this way, though they would probably not be amused.

At any rate, the weekend before this event, I'm helping work a Kinky Karnival at my university. It's really neat. It's an annual event we have at the LGBT house for people to understand kink better. It was started by one of my friends at the school who happens to be a Philadelphian. Three things will be featured this year: rope bondage, gear bondage and hypnosis. That's right, my friend Neil will be coming down from NYC, and I'm helping demonstrate hypnosis with him. This will be open for people to see how it works. I like this idea of all three as it shows three great artforms of kink. Rope bondage is really classical in my eyes. It really is a "back to basics" approach when it comes to bondage as it started; however, I'd say it's one of the hardest to master. That's why I really think it's an invaluable kink to be included. Easier to start, very difficult to master.



Gear bondage is has much more startup cost, and really has no end to it. I think it's a great way to show safety as well and how people need to be completely aware of everything. It's also a great gateway to talk about leather and rubber as a kink itself and show how one can work rope into gear. I think it also has a way to humanize the kink as gear is typically what one freaks out about when it comes to kink, so this is a form of desensitizing. But still, it's just so hot for us pervs, no?



Just look at that.... mmmmm.

Now for hypno. I think this is a great place to end. Hypno has the great advantage of truly showing the connection possible with two people, and showing that the mind can make bondage occur even without any gear at all. I think this is a high form of relationships in bondage and shows how important the connection between a Sir and boy can actually be.

I like this trifecta, as it kinda shows what kink can be about: an aspiration towards perfection and a willingness to learn, an attitude of fearlessness while experimenting and using materials in order to achieve an experience that one desires, and a higher form of connection that one aspires to have with another that transcends standard consciousness. That's what it's about. That's pretty fucking sexy if you ask me.

Until next time,
Bo